Pulling Out Hair

My son is crazy and making me go mad,and that's more then I knew I could be.I can punish him for every wrong he does and I start out mild and work my way up and still he does it anyway.Monday we went to the cemeteries to pay our respects to past loved ones gone,as soon as I let go of his hand to help mom he walks around the car and that's with a car coming towards us the other way.Thankfully they were going slow and he stuck by the car all the way around.But dang him when I called him he didn't listen.He is good for that and no cares on where or what he is doing.I want to ask the doctor if he may have something wrong with him since I have never been around a child this bad and bone headed.....EVER.I called yesterday on getting him into developmental kindergarten this year,all I need to do is provide the necessary info.As soon as I do that I will have more time for me without him around and he will get the stuff he needs.Now I send him outside to play with his bubbles I found in the closet yesterday and now I can type more lol,he needs more kid play and outside time for sure.Tomorrow his dad is taking some time off from work and spending more time with us and I know Anthony will love and hate it lol.Daddy is the boss and what he says go's and I will also get some time away from him while he is here.Soon very soon we won't have this much trouble,I hope,but we will finally he a family who lives together.I so need to get some boxes or something to pack up my stuff in and not sure where to find the best place to get the best deal.I also need to find the moving truck to rent for the time when it comes.