Monday, April 18, 2011

My son in the things he does.

Months ago my son went to sit down on the deck and missed where his butt was going once he was down,he ended up falling off the deck and broke his arm.At least if it was going to happen he fell off the shortest side and on a bunch of dirt.On April 9th he was coming up the deck stairs and fell down four of them.By Monday I saw he was still really hurting and tried to get him into the doctors with no luck,since his insurance changed and his primary doctor didn't take it I couldn't take him to see him so I was looking for one that would take it.I first tried to as his case worker if I could and no luck then I called the insurance and found they picked him a doctor and they gave me the info.I called and found he couldn't get in till May and by then I could change his insurance then.So then I called the insurance back and another number.Again I called and again they couldn't get him in till May.So by the time I had called all them my sister was home,she said Ester told her to take him to the ER.Ester is her client and was once a nurse,she said it may be broke.I was already thinking I was going to have to since I couldn't get a doctor to see him and that's just what I did.Once I got to Metro Health Hospital ER I waited,then after the xray it was made real,my son had broke his arm at the wrist.Not only did he break his arm but the same arm,my mom said if he did it again they would think I was hurting him.One I would never do such a thing and Two they would know if I had most likely.My son is so accident prone and he gets that from his dad and I both.I hope he doesn't break any more of his bones and just enjoys life to the fullest.I found out from Marks mom he broke a wrist bone when he was little and nothing since and I haven't broke any......as far as I know.When the ER doctor came in to show me the break he used a photo copy and I got to keep that.So I have a doctor app. for him to get his cast wed. and I hope it all works out.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Picture Time Again

After my son turned 1 I only get pictures done once a year,this you think wouldn't be a hard thing to do.My son is great when the camera is on him with a great smile and poses pretty good too.Every time I let his dad know its that time again I get the same thing,can't there is no money to get it done.Yet every time I get enough and get them done,then send them out to all.This time he says we can't since he needs to save all he can for the house,I understand this.Not as much as he may think since he is more then happy to buy things for himself.So again I have to make it happen on my own,man am I tired of this.I hope this problem doesn't continue when we live together cause I can't get them done any cheaper,when he starts school he will get them done there.Now I am going to try and ask him something to see if he make the right decision,that would be for me to use the money I already have of his to use towards the pics.Then I will have his $40 plus the $25 I got from Beth to pay for the router,which is his also.$65 will most decently help my portrait fund,please let him pick the right decision.I am happy he is getting more healthy and enjoying the processes of working out at the gym.I actually want to join him and make us both healthy.I know if he gets me to go I will do the work,need to start out small then increase as I go.Mark did find out that Bolingbrook is too far,the nearest public transportation is 3 1/2 mile to walk and that's just too far.So now he has to let him cousin know so she can find a better location.I sent her a message letting her know just in case Mark hasn't yet,just to make sure she knows and can start looking.I find my son likes certain cartoons these days and new ones come out and he loves them.Right now he is watching Little Bear on nick jr. and he picked it over Dora and Mickey Mouse,he likes them both too.I like asking him what he wants to watch and it helps him make his own decisions,that a good thing.Well I just got a reply from my text message asking him what to do with the money I have for him for whats on ebay and he picked himself yet again,sometimes I think he thinks what he wants is more important then what I need for our son.When I ask him what one to get he says we will talk later on what one HE wants.We will have to see what is said on that conversion.
- Updated-
Ok ok I was wrong,he called me back and made a good choice,he said I can use the money on our son and not on pics but made a noise which says he was kidding.He did end up wanting one but it was the cheapest one and that's ok.I am happy to hear what he picked and the old Mark wouldn't have made this choice.I so love him no matter what and I am just feeling more that he said it was ok for me to keep the money for our son.